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Good Growth, Bad Growth

April 9, 2019 By Dave Ferguson Leave a Comment

Good Growth, Bad Growth
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Featured article by Dave Ferguson in CEOWORLD magazine. Reprinted by permission.

Growth is a necessary part of life. It has been said that if you are not growing, you are dying.

We grow food. We invest money so it will grow. And we want our children to grow into driven, responsible, and successful adults.

Growth is a good thing.

Unless it is not.

Weeds also grow. Debt and deficits grow. And there are all kinds of bad health habits that result in growth as well.

Like anything in life, growth can be good or bad.

Now the good news is, to a large degree, you can usually determine the direction of growth by the actions you take.

There is wisdom in the adage, “Train up a child in the way he should go.” In this context, it is like training a small tree. When it starts out, it is weak, and even a light wind could knock it over. To prevent this, you plant it at a good depth, and you tie it to a stake to give it strength and support.

Often as adults, we forget that we should still be growing and training ourselves in the way we should go.

What stakes do you have in place to support your growth?

Here are some stakes that will help you continue to grow in the right direction.

Stake #1: Values

Values anchor you. When you must make a decision or are faced with a situation, solid values will keep you from becoming uprooted. Furthermore, they will give you a basis for how you design each day. Ask yourself at the end of each day, “Have I lived according to my values?” And as you plan for the next day, week, or month, “How will I live according to my values?”

For example, if good health is a value, what are you doing to promote that value…TODAY? Not next month or next year, but TODAY. If a profitable business is a value, what call or visit are you going to make today? If family is a value, look at your calendar. Is your family on the calendar today?

Stake #2: Habits

If an unsupported tree is battered daily from a strong northwest wind, the tree will be permanently bent. It will grow, but in the wrong direction.

This is why the stake of constant habits is important. This stake provides daily reinforcement against the winds of life. Good habits create a good life. Bad habits can destroy it. Make your habits good ones and apply them daily.

“Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.”  –

Stephen Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Stake #3: Goals

Instead of New Year resolutions, perhaps the question to ask is, “How can I grow this year?”

Consider each area of life: physical, mental, spiritual, vocational, relational, and financial. How can you grow in each area?

Setting these goals and aspirations gives life and work great purpose.

  • How will you grow?
  • How will your relationships grow?
  • How will your business grow?
  • How will your team grow?
  • How will your financial assets grow?

These are targeted questions great leaders ask themselves and others frequently.

The key with goals is to make them specific and measurable. “Someday” is not specific enough. “I should” is a pretty good guarantee that you never will. But if you say, “I will lose ten pounds this month, and here is how I am going to do it and why it is important to me,” your chances of reaching that goal are quite high.

Stake #4: Accountability

Leaders who grow value accountability. They know that being highly accountable to themselves and others increases the likelihood of them forming good habits, reaching goals, and living according to their values.

  • Do you have a solid framework of accountability in your life?
  • Do you have established boundaries that help you know when to say, “Yes,” and when to say, “No?”
  • Do you have a planning system and a way to stay accountable to it?
  • Do you have a trusted coach or mentor who will guide, encourage, and commit to helping you stay on track?
  • Do you have a board of advisors to whom you are accountable in business, even if you are the leader?

The choice is yours. You will grow. The question is, “Will you choose to drive these four stakes deep enough to help you grow in the right direction?”


Dave FergusonDave Ferguson is “The Leaders’ Coach”, an internationally recognized executive leadership coach, speaker, facilitator, and author. Are you interested in talking to Dave about coaching or having Dave speak to inspire and motivate your team? “ASK COACH DAVE” at 704-907-0171 or at Dave@AskCoachDave.com.

Four “A’s” to Full Power

October 10, 2018 By Dave Ferguson Leave a Comment

Four “A’s” to Full Power
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The word “potential” has its roots in the Latin word “potentia,” meaning “power.”

I like to think of a person’s potential as the power within them. Potential is the power that drives us to do and be more, to go higher, and advance forward. Full potential is essentially “full power.”

The boiling point of water is 212 degrees. It’s the difference between water and steam…and steam will drive a locomotive. That is the power of full potential – it is reaching that one degree of difference.

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As a leader, are you operating at full power?

Is your team operating at full power?

If not, why not?

Human nature being what it is, I don’t know of anyone, including myself, who expresses full potential every day of their life. This is where habits come into play – habits help to harness the power and keep you on track. But there are times when you or your team (or both) get off track and lose power.

How does this happen?

External Factors – These are things that happen to us. This can be the result of other peoples’ actions and outside circumstances. Maybe you were about to hit a high water mark in your business, and a major vendor canceled their order. Or you were a strong contender for a promotion, and the decision makers chose the other candidate. Perhaps you had a comfortable nest egg built when the economy tanked. Or something happened in a relationship that is affecting other areas of your life. These are external factors that can affect your potential.

Internal Factors – Internal factors are those things that happen from the inside out. They are rooted in spiritual, physical, or mental patterns. Perhaps you have a revenue goal in your business. You come close every year, but fall just short of the goal…every single year. Or you know there is something you can and should do, but you don’t do it. You fear failure…or perhaps you fear success. You may lack the confidence to step up to the next level in leadership, or have team members who do.

Potential can be affected by your physical condition as well. I am often asked why I take time to ride a bike or work out at the gym. It is because physical strength powers every other area of my life – and it does the same for you.

How can you get to higher levels of power across your team?

1. Assessment

With any coaching client, this is the starting point: “Where are you now?”

On a scale of 1-10, in each area of life (spiritual, physical, mental, vocational, financial, relational) they rate their current status.

Many find there are several areas that are weak. They also may notice how one area (for example, physical health, affects other areas). The gap between where they are and 10 on the scale is “potential.” It is room to gain power.

As a leader, this is a healthy exercise to do at least once a year. It is also a good idea to have your team members do this as well. While you may deal with them on a vocational level, those other areas have the potential to affect that one area…and they therefore have an effect on your entire team.

2. Achievements

Simply put, this step is about asking, “Where do you want to go?”

The percentage of people who always write down their goals is estimated to be around 13-20%. Yet, the act of writing down goals and visualizing them gives you 1.2 to 1.4 times the chances of actually reaching them, according to studies.

So you identify the areas in need of power, and then you define what full power looks like. Once you have done that, you simply need to define the next step.

As a leader, think of your team. Where is there a lack of power? Then visualize where you want to go – the goals you want to achieve.

3. Action

Now ask yourself and discuss with your team what it would take to get there.

  • Do they need tools?
  • Are their individual strengths applied in the right areas?
  • Are they in a position that lets them use their best abilities?
  • How are the team relationships?

Each of these has potential impact on power. And as you address each one, the power of your organization will increase.

4. Accountability

I have learned the power of coaching in my own life. There are times when I struggle with one of these facets – maybe I know areas of my life lack the power they had, but I need help identifying those areas. There have been times where I really wasn’t sure what I wanted to do next. Clarity can be hard to ascertain from an inside perspective. And, admittedly, there have been times when I knew what was causing a power drain, and I knew where I needed to go…but I just couldn’t bring myself to take action.

This is where accountability comes into play – it is the linchpin for gaining full power. Accountability to yourself, a system, or a coach – whatever works for you – but you need to be accountable in order to reach your full potential.

Are you and your team operating at 212 degrees – full power?


 

 


Dave FergusonDave Ferguson is “The Leaders’ Coach”, an internationally recognized executive leadership coach, speaker, facilitator, and author. Are you interested in talking to Dave about coaching or having Dave speak to inspire and motivate your team? “ASK COACH DAVE” at 704-907-0171 or at Dave@AskCoachDave.com.

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